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Mar 7, 2022 20:00
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A man told me that my asking amount was too high and that no one would pay that much.
If there really are women who accept those terms, it makes things really difficult for me.
He even kept pressuring me to go all the way despite being a Jiro—was he just a person to avoid?
He didn’t mention transportation costs either.
It really makes me wonder how much the quality can vary between male members…
I wish people like this would disappear from Uni.
4 answers
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
Universe Club doesn’t get involved in allowance negotiations, so I don’t think it’s strange that men like that exist.
Without fear of misunderstanding me, if both parties agree, why not go without an allowance—or do a pay-per-meeting arrangement for 20,000 yen?
It’s quite unpleasant to attack women who are willing to accept a low allowance. I’ve heard there are groups of papa-katsu women who do that.
If you keep this up, you’re headed for the future of becoming a bitter older woman who makes snide remarks to younger women.
If the allowance isn’t acceptable to you, you can simply end the relationship.
Other
I’m not sure whether there are any female members who would agree to those terms, but there do seem to be male members who offer them. Still, if they’re making that offer, I assume there must be some people who accept it.
You can just consider him a person to avoid, ignore him, and move on.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
Sure, there may be women like that.
Whether it’s true or not really doesn’t matter.
She may be seeing someone for 20, but she has nothing to do with you. Who cares?
If you don’t want to accept 20, just tell him, “I have a man who gives me 100 each time, so I don’t do 20. That’s the first time anyone’s ever offered me 20.”
Other
The best thing to do is simply not engage with someone like that.
It’s unacceptable for him to pressure you to go without protection. If the allowance doesn’t meet your expectations, just politely decline by saying, “I’m sorry, but our terms don’t match.”
Honestly, I wonder if anyone actually agrees to that… I sometimes see questions about it too, but I’ve never met anyone who did.
There’s no such thing as asking for too much. I think it’s fine to set the amount you feel is right. If he says that doesn’t work for him, then that’s that.
Stand your ground—you’re absolutely fine.