I met a wonderful papa (a male supporter) through Universe Club, and we’ve been seeing each other happily. He’s kind, has made me his monthly arrangement, and gives me souvenirs every time we go on a date. He cares about me and treats me well. I’d like to show him how grateful I am. I sometimes bring small gifts, but I feel like they may not be enough.
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Since he’s single, the only ideas I’ve come up with are: ① writing him a letter to tell him how grateful I always am, ② making him some sweets, or ③ preparing a homemade lunch we can eat together.
Of course, I think the most important thing is for us to enjoy ourselves and spend wonderful time together whenever we’re together. What kinds of things would make you happy if your partner did them for you? I’d also like to know whether anyone would dislike receiving the things I’ve thought of. If you have any other good ideas, I’d appreciate your advice.
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I’d be happy with any of options ①–③（笑）
I’d probably be grinning when I received it（笑）
I think it’s enough just to feel connected somehow—for example, knowing that if I send a LINE message when we can’t meet, I’ll get a reply.
Since papas are busy too, I think it’s best to agree on how often to message, or keep it to no more than three back-and-forth exchanges a day.
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If either of those happened too often, it might start to feel burdensome—or make the gesture feel less special.
I’d be happy with it on Valentine’s Day or other special occasions. Honestly, it’s enough if she just sends me a thank-you text after each time we meet. As long as she seems to be having a good time when we’re together, that’s all I need.
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It depends on the papa, but I don’t think it would come across as too much if you simply included a handwritten card—not a letter—with some homemade sweets.
As for whether he’d appreciate a packed lunch, the weather is about to get nicer, so bring up the idea of having a date in the park and casually say, “Maybe I’ll make us a packed lunch?” If he’s not into it, he’ll probably say no.
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I don’t like any of options ①–③ because they all feel too heavy for me.
I think it’s enough if we can genuinely enjoy spending time together and she occasionally expresses her appreciation. Even if she doesn’t say it outright, I feel that you can usually sense how the other person feels about you.
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