There’s no point in being desired by men like papas whose character you question, is there?

Everyone has their own standards for what makes a man “good,” so it’s hard to say. There’s an old saying that heroes are fond of romance. Successful men tend to be attractive and popular with both men and women. Even if they’re not involved in papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), plenty of successful male business owners have mistresses or date multiple people. By society’s standards, they’d probably be considered “good men.” If successful men are attracted to you, I feel like you’re doing better than someone who isn’t popular at all.

> There’s no point in being popular with people whose character makes you question them, right? Is that really so? Try analyzing it a little more deeply. Why were you attractive to them? Are the only people who find you attractive those whose character is questionable? Or did it just happen that this particular person had questionable character? Once you’ve analyzed that, you’ll also be able to figure out what to do next. Then you can test whether your theory is correct. If you figure out how to appeal to a papa (a male supporter), you can apply what you’ve learned and think about what you would need to change to appeal to genuinely good men. If you keep studying yourself this way, you may eventually become attractive to all kinds of people.

The fact that she says she’s quit papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) even though she still has ongoing papa (male supporters) makes it seem like she really can’t accept reality. I think she should start by ending things with all of her ongoing papas and quitting her relationships through the dating club.