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Mar 7, 2022 11:11
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While we were walking through the crowded streets of Ginza, he asked, “Would it be okay if you became my girlfriend from now on?” We were just about to enter a restaurant, so I instinctively replied, “Oh, yes.”
Lately, all the stress from my papa has even caused my period to be late, and he gets upset if we aren’t constantly in touch.
I don’t want to contact him for a while. Ladies, what would you do in this kind of situation?
3 answers
あや
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If you don’t want to stay in touch, I don’t think you need to force yourself to. Even if you try to treat it as a job and keep things transactional, some people simply don’t want to take a low-paying job. And that’s perfectly fine.
りん
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No, no, no… If it was right as you were walking into the place, I can see why you just answered, “Yes.”
What kind of place did you go to?! Was he taking you shopping or something? I can’t really tell what was going on.
Maybe you should ask him now, “What do you mean by ‘girlfriend’?”
If he means you’re his girlfriend, then does that mean there’s no allowance?
All I can say is that I thought he meant, “Act like my girlfriend while we’re inside the place”…
Personally, I wouldn’t want to be the girlfriend of someone who gets upset over something like that. Since it sounds like you’re looking for different kinds of relationships, maybe it’s best to say, “I don’t think this is the kind of relationship either of us wants,” and end things.
茉莉花
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If he gives you the full allowance you’re asking for, why not try continuing while playing the role of his girlfriend?
If it’s not worth the effort, you can always quit.
Marika