Tips Mar 7, 2022 07:35

Is the amount of money you receive proportional to your looks?

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Are there people who deliberately choose unattractive women and offer them a lower allowance? I don’t know how to deal with how unforgiving I feel. I’ll resent them for the rest of my life. Even if they apologized for treating me this way, I could never forgive them. What should I do?
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I don’t know whether men specifically choose unattractive women, but they may choose women who seem realistic given their own looks and the allowance they can offer. Maybe she’s an exceptionally beautiful woman asking for a high allowance and has been rejected over and over. If she was offered a low allowance because she’s unattractive, all she has to say is, “No thanks—I’d rather pass than accept such a low amount.” I wonder what happened to her. Marika
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Some men may correlate a woman’s appearance with the amount of allowance they offer, while others may not. Personally, I don’t change the allowance based solely on appearance. Incidentally, “proportional” means that when one side doubles, the other doubles as well—for example, twice the looks, twice the allowance. There may be people who deliberately choose unattractive women and offer them less, but I think they’re very rare. Unless they have that particular preference, most people wouldn’t go out of their way to do something like that. As long as you feel unable to forgive him, you’re letting that man control your emotions. I think being influenced by someone so unusual is a waste of time.
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You really did end up dealing with an awful person. Apparently, there are a certain number of people like that, so for now, I think it would be best to report him to the club. After that, you can either look for someone else or leave papa-katsu behind and try to forget about it. Even if you think about retaliating or harassing him, there’s a good chance you’ll only end up feeling worse, so it would be a waste of your time and energy over someone like that. Some people judge others solely by their looks, while many also take other factors into consideration. Likewise, some people offer the same allowance every time, while others have their own general standards. I also consider factors besides appearance, but looks are still an important point for me. I have a minimum allowance in mind as well, but if we meet and hit it off, I sometimes give more than the amount we originally agreed on.
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So it didn’t go as promised—you ended up dealing with an awful person. For now, please message the staff on LINE. Then submit the lowest possible rating. Hopefully there won’t be another victim… Sorry if I’m mistaken, but what was your behavior like after you entered the hotel? Had you told him a string of restrictions like “No kissing, no fingers, no oral”? Even if you weren’t really enjoying it, did you pretend to be into it for him? If you just lay there like a dead fish, he might lower your allowance. I don’t know what exactly happened to you, but it feels like there was more to it than just having your allowance reduced. Poor thing. Men like that shouldn’t even exist.
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I’m not sure whether it correlates with looks, but it’s normal for the allowance to vary depending on how much the man likes you. > What should I do? I think you should work hard enough to reverse your positions—maybe become wealthier than him...
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That can happen, but for your own mental and physical well-being, maybe the best thing is to forget about it. As long as you hold on to that resentment, you’ll continue to suffer. Try writing down all your complaints on paper, then toss it in the trash along with those feelings! I agree—it’s awful when the allowance is different from what was promised. But unfortunately, it may be one of those problems anyone runs into once in a thousand times. As Rin suggested, it might be a good idea to report it to the club as well (>_<)
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Are you the person who asked the question below? Looks and allowance aren’t necessarily proportional—some men take them into account, while others don’t. That’s something only the man you’re dealing with can really know. That said, since he’s also paying an offer fee, I imagine he’ll choose someone who matches his preferences. If you were treated that badly, why not report to the club what happened?
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