Tips Mar 7, 2022 01:11

I’m the person who asked the previous letter-date question m(_ _)m

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Someone replied, “It’s strange you haven’t blocked him yet,” but since money was involved in our exchanges, I was afraid that suddenly blocking him might lead to some kind of disadvantage for me. I wondered whether I should send some kind of message first before cutting him off, so I decided to ask. Basically, I wanted to know how to block him properly, lol. Would it really be okay to suddenly delete and block him?? I gave the club my personal information, and I’ve even had an unedited photo of my face posted online at least once, so I’m constantly worried that he may have taken screenshots and, if I make him angry, could post them somewhere. That’s why I’m feeling so anxious.
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Good morning~! Before signing up, I came up with an excuse in case anyone close to me found out (,,> <,,)♡ Mine would be: “What?! I have no idea what that is!! Maybe someone used a photo I posted on Twitter without my permission (crying).” (๑>◡<๑) Also, during the interview, they told me, “Please rest assured that we don’t disclose personal information such as the real name or address you registered with♪” So I’m optimistically thinking that even if someone close to me who isn’t a club member makes an inquiry, I can just keep pretending I don’t know anything. (*^^*) As for the future, I think I’d like to quit club activities… (for various reasons) ↓ “Thank you for supporting me all this time. I’m truly grateful.” ↓ I wouldn’t block them—I’d just wait for the LINE messages to naturally stop. I feel that blocking someone would still be rude, so I think I’d rather fade out naturally and end the relationship without causing any trouble. (*^^*)
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ダイ
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
Since you’ve been seeing him up until now, blocking and deleting him without saying anything would be best avoided out of courtesy. That said, as you mentioned, there’s no way to completely rule out the possibility of your photos being leaked. However, the man who leaks them may not necessarily be your letter-date partner. He could be another male member who was considering making you an offer, or someone you only met once before parting ways. In other words, the only thing you can do now to avoid provoking him is to end things respectfully and with proper courtesy.
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カズ
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
I didn’t expect him to keep contacting you after you turned down his offer to see each other. I feel the same way. Since you already politely declined his proposal, perhaps you could also politely tell him you’d rather not continue messaging if no allowance is involved. Alternatively, he may be messaging you every day because you reply, so you could consider leaving his messages read—or unread—or simply taking longer to respond. You seem worried he might lash out, but I feel that someone who’s going to do that would probably lash out when you rejected his offer in the first place. That said, I never imagined someone would message a person every day after being turned down, so I’m not really sure. P.S. If you’re worried he might lash out, you could try continuing to message him until he eventually stops. Though he might get angry that, even after a year of messaging, you still won’t sleep with him for free.
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