He used to buy me clothes, but he doesn’t anymore.
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When we first met, he bought me cute clothes and things like that.
But now he doesn’t buy me anything.
When we first met, he would say, “Let’s go shopping.”
He doesn’t say that anymore.
He used to take me to places like Marui, Daimaru, and Takashimaya.
He doesn’t take me there anymore.
Now it’s just dinner and adult relationship (intimate).
We’ve been seeing each other for two years. What can I do to make things go back to the way they were?
I really admire trendy mermaid skirts because they’re so cute.
He used to buy them for me separately from my allowance!!
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If you see each other frequently, it’s hard to avoid things becoming routine.
Even more so if you’ve been seeing each other for two years.
On the bright side, it means there’s a sense of security and comfort.
If you want things to go back to how they were, the best approach is to make him feel that he could lose you—but if you handle it wrong, it could end the relationship.
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It’s difficult, but maybe try complimenting your papa (a male supporter) more to make things feel a little more affectionate.
Maybe your papa wasn’t that into shopping in the first place. Mine is the same way.
It might be best to let it go.
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Maintaining the status quo can be difficult, can’t it?
Sometimes the other person is the cause, but making the effort to keep things as they are can be quite demanding. It may be worth considering how you’ve changed compared with when you first started and reassessing your own behavior.
They might respond if you try inviting them yourself. But if they still don’t, they may be starting to lose interest.
I’m saying this as a reminder to myself, too.
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Put positively, you’ve gotten used to each other; put less positively, things have probably become routine. If you can move them the way you used to, they may go back to how they were before.
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