When I went into a love hotel in Shibuya with my papa (a male supporter), I saw a sex worker take a deep breath right outside the room, knock, and go in.
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I thought it was a good way to switch gears.
By the way, beyond the open door was a short, bald old man who looked to be in his 60s, wearing a bathrobe.
I mean, you’d need to take a deep breath to get through that too…
Personally, when my partner is taking a shower, I psych myself up by looking at photos of my beloved Fuma Kikuchi from Sexy Zone in my phone’s photo gallery, thinking, “All right!! Once this is over, I’ll get my allowance! Time to do my best!”
Do any of you have a particular moment when you psych yourself up, or a way of switching gears, when you have to suppress your true self during papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) and put on a performance to satisfy your partner?
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Do you really think this question was written by a woman?
It sounds like it’s coming entirely from a man’s perspective. I can understand it if it were a man asking, but I’m not sure women would really go that far.
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That’s not exactly a very pleasant question…
As a woman myself, I find it sad. Some women, myself included, do enjoy intimacy, after all (´；ω；｀)
I don’t really have any advice on how to change your mindset, either.
I do think the way we phrase things is important. But since your way of thinking is completely different from mine, I don’t think I can offer any advice…
Early’s answer really made me stop and think.
Also, I don’t think the question box is a place to vent—everyone seems to have things they genuinely want to ask, don’t they? (>_<)
Lately, you’ve been writing a lot of things that make everyone uncomfortable. Is there some deeper, underlying problem troubling you?
If you asked a proper question, I think people would be able to respond more sympathetically…
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That’s a good question.
I agree with everyone else. You shouldn’t force yourself into a relationship just for the money.
A papa isn’t choosing you out of obligation, and he can always find someone else, so there’s no need to worry.
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When I was just starting my business, I couldn’t afford to be picky about work—I had to do whatever it took to get by. I’d put on a cheerful face even for clients I didn’t like, take a deep breath before meeting them, and feel completely drained afterward.
I was being paid properly, so I must have been pretty good at acting.
Still, after meeting some great clients who treated me well, I wanted to do my best in return. That led me to work even harder, which made them treat me even better, and naturally motivated me to put in even more effort. I feel like, little by little, we built a good relationship and a positive environment.
It reminded me somewhat of business, so I thought I’d comment. Sorry if it’s completely different.
You may have financial circumstances that make it necessary to push yourself, but I hope you can find someone who makes things a little easier for you.
Though I’m saying all this as if I have it figured out, I may be making my own partner push themselves quite a lot too.
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At the very least, you should do papa-katsu with someone you can honestly—or at least flatteringly—call “handsome,” “good-looking,” “cool,” or “stylish.”
Otherwise, it’s not papa-katsu or papa-raku (“papa fun”), but papa-penance or papa-death…
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Since you think you’d earn more in the adult entertainment industry, why not consider going that route?
Deep breathing can be one way to help shift your mindset.
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