Thank you for your help. I’m a female member.

> Or is there no dedicated staff member assigned to me? If you received a lot of offers, I assume they didn’t all come from just one staff member. So I think your question is whether you have a designated contact person or not. At the moment, it’s kind of both. About a year ago, the club changed its system so that interviews and arrangements are handled by staff from separate departments. So while the staff member who interviewed you is technically your contact person, the actual arrangements are handled by someone else. Recommending women to men is also part of the arrangements staff’s job, so I think it’s best to assume there isn’t a dedicated contact person in the sense you mean. There is one exception: interview staff continue to handle black-listed men. Those men may want to hear the opinion of the staff member who interviewed them, so as a special benefit, the interview staff also act as their contact person. (The actual arrangements are still handled by different staff.) Because of that, the interview staff may have recommended you when you first registered, which could have led to offers from black-listed men. However, popular women receive plenty of offers even without being recommended, so if you received a lot of offers, I suspect more men found you through the members-only page than through staff recommendations. > The offers suddenly stopped completely after only two weeks... If you had been receiving a lot of offers, I suspect your profile may currently be hidden temporarily. My guess is that it will remain hidden for about two weeks and then be made visible again, but since I haven’t seen your profile, that’s only based on how things generally work internally. If you were upset that the offers stopped coming, watching things for a while should make the situation clearer.

Please value the papas you currently have, regardless of whether you’re receiving new offers. The club’s outreach to male members is minimal—almost nonexistent. The reason your offers stopped after two weeks is probably that your so-called “newcomer period” has ended. That said, I think many men add women they’re interested in to their “favorites list” even if they aren’t making an offer right away. When things end with one woman, they’ll often start making offers to women on that favorites list. So from now on, you’ll probably receive offers occasionally, just when you’ve almost forgotten about them. If you’ve already met enough men and are satisfied with your allowance, that’s one thing, but at this stage, I feel it’s still too early to decide to leave the club.

You don’t necessarily have to close your account—you can also hide your profile and photos from specific male members. Just ask the staff for details! It’s me.

New women are constantly joining, so your profile will gradually get buried. Try tweaking your comment a little from time to time.

In a way, that might be the right answer… They say flyers are only effective for about three days…