Tips Mar 6, 2022 00:08

I’m uncomfortable with a papa who casually makes sexual jokes during dinner or over LINE. Would it be okay to tell him directly, “I’m not comfortable with that, so could you please tone it down?”

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I’m not talking about sexual comments like saying something felt good or anything like that.
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Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
He probably hasn’t realized it, so I think it would be best to tell him directly, just as you described.
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When you’re dining together, you do become aware of other people watching, don’t you? (>_<) It might be best to explain that to him politely… I’m not sure whether he’s Type A/B or C/D, but perhaps he’s inviting you because he finds you attractive after all. (>_<)
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Age: 50s 👨 Male Other
Of course, I think you should tell him, but changing someone’s behavior is really difficult. It’ll probably just cause stress for both of you, so it may be better for everyone to move on sooner rather than later. —It’s me
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It sounds like you may simply not be a good match, so I think you should be honest about how you feel rather than forcing yourself to put up with it. If it doesn’t work out, it’s okay to part ways.
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Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
I’ve never once talked about sexual topics in conversations with women, so he’s the opposite—he can’t help himself. Saying something won’t change him. If you don’t like it, break up with him. You shouldn’t force yourself to put up with it.
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