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Mar 3, 2022 19:24
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My feelings are almost dangerously intense!
I feel bad saying this, but I often ended relationships because I gradually lost interest in the other person, so many of those relationships were painful in their own way.
I’d heard that the more you tell someone she’s cute, the cuter she becomes, so I put it into practice. I used to date several girls, but now I’m devoted to just one, and I absolutely adore her. She keeps getting cuter, and I want to show her off! Where do you all brag about your girls?
She’s adorable even when she’s not wearing lingerie!
Compared with when we first met, she’s become an even cuter and kinder person, and the positive effect has rubbed off on me too, making me happy.
At the same time, I do regret things and wonder whether my previous relationships might have lasted if I had treated those girls this way. I’m sorry.
I’m thoroughly enjoying being in a one-girl arrangement—it’s great!
Could that be why I went from dating several girls to just one? Or is it because I’m getting older?
Either way, thank you, Universe Club (^_^)
The key words were “compliment her a lot” and “adore her.”
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Other
You’re such an idiot, lol.
You can walk around with a placard hanging from your neck that says “Lovable Idiot.” You’ve earned it, so wear it proudly.
That’s what happens when you meet someone you truly click with, isn’t it? It’s heartwarming that this isn’t just a story about you getting your way because you piled on the money. I guess something other than money was important here.
I really hope women who are considering signing up with a dating club read this. To see that this kind of win-win situation is possible. There’s a certain poverty of spirit in being unable to accept anything unless all affection, popularity, and so on can be converted into money. That’s why you can hold your head high. What you’re doing may look similar to compensated dating, but fundamentally, it’s different.
I hope the woman feels the same way. If she doesn’t, that would be interesting in its own way too, haha.
Anyway, wishing you both happiness. I’m rooting for you! ^_^
Taro
Other
He sounds like a great papa. Being adored is the best beauty serum.
My first papa also invested a lot in me. I had plenty of room for improvement to begin with, but I was able to have quite a glow-up.
My current papa also covers my beauty-related expenses, so I feel like I’m getting healthier and more radiant every year without any stress. Thank you so much, papas, as always.
Other
If you keep telling someone they’re cute, both your mind and theirs can get conditioned to see them as cute—or even make them seem cuter. Good for you.
You don’t have to brag about it; it’s perfectly fine to just enjoy your own little world of satisfaction.
👨 Male
Universe member
As I’ve written in my columns, I’ve been seeing just one woman since we started dating.
At first, it seemed like she had offers from several men, but before I knew it, I became the only one.
As you asked, I do feel that she’s become more beautiful than when we first started seeing each other. Though I’m not sure whether that’s because I’ve simply gotten used to seeing her...
I wouldn’t go so far as to say I dote on her, but I do teach her the basic manners and conduct expected of a working adult(笑). I’m also the discreet type, so I don’t brag about it.
いっつ・みぃ
Male
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Age: 50s
👨 Male
Other
The girls I’m seeing through papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) keep getting prettier and prettier. No doubt about it.
Their dreams are steadily coming true, and they’re finding success in their careers too. It makes me happy.
I always try to be the kind of man who brings out the best in them, while also reminding myself not to mistakenly think it’s all thanks to me.
I don’t want to brag about my papa-katsu. I want to cherish it privately for the rest of my life, as a secret known only to the two of us.
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
It seems like a classic case of “the one who falls in love loses.”
The woman I’m seeing is cute, but I keep a certain emotional distance in the relationship.