Saying that we only exchanged messages about the schedule was misleading—we also exchanged messages like, “Here’s a brief profile,” “You seem wonderful, so I’m looking forward to meeting you,” and “Thank you for booking such a lovely restaurant.” However, even after that whole exchange was over, don’t you think it’s too much when he keeps saying things like “I did ○ every single day” and “I want you to send me photos every day”? Seriously, give it a rest.
And it seems that people like this are the ones who ask for strange things while offering a rather low allowance… lol
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> In my experience, the ones who say things like that tend to ask for weird things and offer less allowance... lol
If that’s been your experience, then I think there’s a good chance that’s the case.
In general, if someone makes a lot of demands before you’ve even met, they’ll probably make even more once you meet.
I’m not sure whether the allowance is related, but if they’re still using letter dating at this stage, there’s a good chance the allowance will be low.
So if you already feel that something is off or suspicious about this person, I think it’s perfectly fine to end things before meeting.
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There will always be strange people and low-paying supporters, not just in letter dating.
If someone asks you to send photos before you’ve even met, you can simply end the arrangement immediately.
Likewise, if a man messages you every single day even though no allowance has been agreed on, and it’s causing you stress, you’re well within your rights to end things right away.
If you feel the club is likely to receive a negative report, let them know the facts as soon as possible.
The biggest advantage of letter dating may be that you can screen out strange people without ever meeting them.
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As you can see, I’m a pain to deal with even before anything intimate happens—I find conversation exhausting, keep cracking jokes without giving anyone a chance to play straight, and I’m such a lousy guy that even 50,000 yen feels like too much for my allowance. But when it comes to letter dating, all I’m thinking about is taking the shortest route to the goal: meeting in person.
If someone asks you to send a photo, just take a picture of a random manhole and send it. (I’m not making a dirty joke—the “hole” is just a regular sewer cover. There are people who are into that kind of thing.)
Please don’t drag weird people or low-paying guys into this, lol. If you’re a man, stop endlessly passing the ball around and just kick it into the goal—in the frame—and finish the job.
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