Tips Mar 2, 2022 05:13

How long do your dates usually last on average after the second one?

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With the girl I’m currently seeing, each date lasts about five or six hours, including dinner and a hotel stay. She doesn’t try to leave until I say something like, “Isn’t it about time to catch the last train?” Is she just being considerate?
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It depends on her personality, but more women than you might expect find it difficult to say they want to leave. Most likely, they’re just trying to be considerate.
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It ranges from 1.2 to 13.4 hours. Usually, it’s around 3–5 hours on average. I adjust my departure time to suit the woman I’m seeing that day. If I’m asked to come, there have even been times when I’ve gone to meet her for just five minutes.
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He’s probably trying to be considerate. That said, I don’t think he could do that unless he actually liked you. Asking here probably won’t resolve anything, so it might be worth talking to him about it directly.
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Excluding trips and overnight stays, it’s usually around two to six hours. If she doesn’t try to leave, she may be being considerate, she may be having such a good time that she loses track of time, or—as Mac suggests—she may simply not want to leave.
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It depends on what the date involves, but some girls stay overnight, so it can range from about 2 to 12 hours. The average is around 4–5 hours. Maybe they’re being considerate of me too, so I make sure things don’t go on too long and send them home by taxi or car.
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As you mentioned, I think he’s probably being considerate. It may be best to assume that he’s seeing you because he doesn’t feel particularly uncomfortable with it. For me, it’s usually around four hours.
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