When I hear various stories from men who’ve received offers, I’m shocked by how many show things like Universe Club information, women’s profiles, and photos to other regular men as a joke. Since the people answering here are gentlemen, you might think, “There’s no way anyone here would do that,” but based on what I’ve heard, nearly half of the men who’ve received offers show women’s profiles to others as a topic of conversation or something. I found this out in the course of conversation.

> Is this just something I have to put up with? I believe the club explained when you joined that you must not show your member screen to anyone else, so no, it’s not something you have to accept. I believe this falls under the prohibited conduct listed in the terms: Article 12 (Prohibited Conduct) (5) Publishing or forwarding images or personal information belonging to other people, including female members and our employees, online, or allowing anyone other than members to use them And if you’re not satisfied with that wording, it also seems to fall under: (11) Any other situation in which the company determines, based on reasonable grounds, that use of this service is inappropriate https://universe-club.jp/men/fullagreement/ Since this male member is knowingly violating the prohibited conduct, I assume he’s willing to be forcibly expelled from the club. Perhaps he’s taking it for granted that the woman won’t report him because she’s supposedly happy about it. That said, if you simply report it to the club and the man denies doing anything, you may not be able to do much. You’ll probably need some kind of evidence—for example, taking a photo of the smartphone screen with your own phone, or having her send you a screenshot of the screen. Either way, I wish people would stop openly violating the terms. I wonder if displaying the man’s name, address, and other personal details as a watermark over the women’s photos—different details for each man viewing them—would stop them from showing the photos to others.

I’ve had someone show me information too, and they even told me my class without me asking（笑） Even if I hear or see information about other women or about the people answering here, I just think, “How is that supposed to help me?!” ☆To the staff: When a man and woman become partners, if one of them asks to be told something about the other, please consider introducing a system where, if evidence comes to light, a hefty fine is collected. I hope this can at least help prevent personal information from being leaked everywhere. This would make it easier for people to register with a dating club with peace of mind. Thank you.

Are there really men like that? They’re a risk to everyone, so please report him to the club.

I don’t think it’s something we can simply say is unavoidable… I considered the possibility that something like that might happen, so I registered with SALON instead. With SALON, there are no photos, so at least I feel reassured about that. Still, it’s frightening to think there are men like that. Since he didn’t actually show anyone my profile, I wonder if it would be difficult to report him to the club… He bragged that he shows it to other people, but I’m afraid of being identified. I guess all I can do is consult the club about it.

I don’t even show my profile to women I’m close with, but considering how many women know my class, I suppose things like that can happen… Women who are worried about being recognized probably ask the club to hide their profiles from men who have previously made them an offer.

I’ve never heard of someone like that. It’s not just ungentlemanly—it’s a clear violation of the rules, so you should report him to the club immediately. There will always be people who break the rules, no matter what they are, so you can’t eliminate the risk entirely. But we shouldn’t just accept it as “something that can’t be helped.” If the person who encounters it doesn’t take action, it becomes something that’s simply tolerated. It’s important to have the courage not to allow that kind of behavior. Oh, but don’t call him out directly. Don’t confront him—instead, let it go in the moment and report him afterward. Taro