Things progressed to an adult relationship after our first meeting, but since then, she has turned down my suggestions for an adult relationship four times in a row, so our dates have been dinner only (no intimacy).
I book a hotel every time, so I end up sleeping there alone, feeling pretty empty.
I somehow managed to get her to agree to stay overnight next time, but should I try not to get my hopes up too much?
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> Since I book a hotel every time, I end up sleeping there alone and feeling pretty empty.
Aren’t you inviting them with the intention of staying overnight?
Even if that’s not what you mean, they’re very likely to assume it’s going to be an overnight stay.
I think you should make it clear that you’ll definitely part ways within two hours.
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You’re quite the challenger, aren’t you?
Next time, I’d suggest not booking a hotel in advance. Otherwise, you’ll just waste your time and money.
Also, why not ask the staff which women are available that day and make them an offer?
That way, other women benefit too, and your heart will be fuller as well—so you probably won’t have to spend another night alone, shedding tears into your pillow.
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I’m in my 30s too.
It probably depends on why you were turned down before, but I’ve never been rejected repeatedly.
Since you still give her an allowance even without an adult relationship (intimate), maybe she doesn’t feel any urgency—or could it simply be bad timing? For example, are you inviting her around her period every month, or is she the type who needs to choose a day because she’s busy the next day?
Or, and I’m sorry to say this, maybe the first meeting didn’t go very well.
Either way, it doesn’t sound like she dislikes you enough to never want to meet again. You could keep trying without giving up, or decide to move on and look for someone else.
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I think you’ve been categorized as a dinner-only papa.
When talking with women, I sometimes hear them say things like, “I respect him, so I couldn’t have an intimate relationship with him, but I’d be open to just having dinner with him.”
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