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Mar 1, 2022 20:49
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I think that’s expensive. I usually pay 5.
Her photos on the members’ page are cute, but what do you all think of women who negotiate for 10 before even meeting?
8 answers
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中!
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです!
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
Exchanging allowance through a letter-based date doesn’t seem very smooth for either person.
I think it’s better to leave more things to look forward to after you meet.
Other
I’m surprised they asked for 10 on a letter date.
I also received 10 on a letter date recently, but I never once said I wanted 10. He contacted me on LINE for the first time in a while and quietly handed it to me.
I thought that was really classy of him.
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I always use Letter Date, but I’ve never discussed allowances there.
If the woman brings it up, you can simply say goodbye and end things there. Isn’t that better than meeting her and having an unpleasant experience?
Other
If it’s someone I really like, I’ll offer 100,000 yen as the terms, so it doesn’t bother me.
I don’t think it matters whether it’s before or after meeting. If you feel it’s high compared with the going rate, just ignore it.
Other
Maybe she simply wasn’t a good match for you. She may get along well with other papas, so I think you should look for someone else rather than force it.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
Nothing in particular. You’re free to hope for whatever you want.
After reading your question, though, I did think you came across as rather boring.
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
If you can’t afford to offer 100,000 yen, then she was simply out of your league.
Please look for a woman who matches your budget.
The fact that you’re asking what people think of her just because you can’t offer that amount makes me think you completely misunderstand how dating clubs work.
Why do you think you’re in the right here?
She’s simply stating what she wants, so there’s nothing wrong or unusual about it.
If anything, I’d be more interested in what people think of the way you phrased your question.
Other
Even if you ask whether it’s reasonable…
You’re asking for 5, while the other person is asking for 10. If you can’t agree, then it can’t be helped.
If you really want to see them badly enough to pay the full 10, then why not meet them?
For that person, it means they’re willing to accept an adult relationship (intimate) for 10.