Tips Feb 28, 2022 22:36

I'm old enough to know better, yet I'm addicted to Q&A sites.

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I spend my days wondering suspiciously, “Is this question about me??” (LOL) Fortunately or unfortunately, the women I date never show me what they're really thinking. But from this Q&A site, I can sense deeply rooted, pitch-black hatred simmering beneath the surface. Should I trust the women I date? I really want to finally quit this Q&A site (LOL)
👤 Asked by Guest 👨GenderMale 🎂 50s 👑 Universe male member
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> I spend my days wondering anxiously, “Is this question about me?” You must be someone whose everyday behavior is seriously out of line. Most people read things like that and think, “Do people really do such things?” They see it as someone else’s problem. That’s because they don’t behave that way themselves. The fact that you can relate to those questions suggests you need to change your behavior even more. You’re not thinking, “None of these questions apply to me,” no matter which one you read. Only when you can think that way can you finally consider yourself a decent person. And even then, you’ve merely reached the starting line. For now, try being more of a gentleman.
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だて◎ゆめ
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Haha, that’s a good question! 😄 I think it’s fair to say that everyone has that side to them. After that, just judge for yourself based on the person in front of you.
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太郎
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If it’s a question from one of those money-obsessed women treating dating like the sex industry, you can just skip it. If you want something really messy, you’ll find far more genuine sex-work drama on sites like Hosurabu. As for whether a woman you’re actually meeting is like that, you can tell pretty quickly as long as you haven’t been throwing money around. She’ll start chirping “money, money” like an autumn insect, lol. What I find interesting are questions where there’s genuine affection, but things just don’t quite click. They’re useful because you get to see, “So that’s how it feels from the woman’s side.” And while answering, I sometimes think, “Yeah, we really should just talk it out normally.” Other than that, I suppose it’s basically a contest to see how much you can joke around while pretending to give a serious answer. Honestly, that probably accounts for 80% of it. Taro
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ダイ
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Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
Do you really think employees show their employers everything they’re thinking? It’s much the same with papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan). Women who do papa-katsu would never show their true feelings to the men supporting them.
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If you want to get a sense of what your partner is really thinking, why not bring up the Q&A site? You could talk about how they felt about certain questions, how they dislike one respondent but can understand another person’s opinion, and so on. It might help you get a better idea of their values. They may still keep a poker face throughout the conversation, but in that case, so be it.
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カズ
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
It shouldn’t even be a question which to trust: some anonymous person’s unverifiable, shitty post when you don’t even know their gender or whether they’re a member, or the partner you’re actually seeing.
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りん
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No one can really know what’s true and what’s a lie, so I think the happiest thing is to trust the person you’re seeing. Not everyone is dating against their will. It’s probably just that people who can’t tell anyone in real life come here to vent. If you’re wondering, “Could they be talking about me?” then you’re probably fine. The kind of person women talk about here likely wouldn’t recognize themselves even if they saw it.
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