He’s a really good papa (a male supporter), but he always makes surprise plans without asking me first.

・Afternoon tea after a lunch course. ・A dessert course at a famous restaurant after lunch. (I was able to push myself a little and finish both, but if I had left any, I would have felt bad for both the hotel staff who prepared everything and my papa.) ・A show featuring nightlife hostesses after dinner. ・This time, I thought there must be something planned again, but it turned out to be lunch only. And so on. So, before our last meeting, I messaged him, “Do you have any plans after lunch? If not, there’s somewhere I’d like to go.” He replied, “Nothing in particular. I thought we could just take our time and talk. If there’s somewhere you’d like to go, let’s go there.” Then, on the day, I was surprised to find that my papa had booked a room. We didn’t have sex there; we talked for a little while and then went where I wanted to go. Since this papa likes surprises, how can I tell him how I feel without making it seem like I’m rejecting his kindness?