He got angry and left because the age on his Universe profile didn’t match his actual age!!!!!!!!!!!!
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I guessed the age of the man I met today as older than he really was, things got awkward, and I left!!!
I’m sure he’s filed a complaint against me—I’m crying.
His offer profile said he was in his 50s.
He really did look older, so I didn’t notice anything was off.
During dinner, he asked me the most impossible question: “How old do you think I am?” 😭
My inner struggle:
“His profile says he’s in his 50s, but judging from his thinning hair and skin, there’s no way he’s in his early 50s. Probably around 57... But if I guess too young, it’ll sound fake... Okay, I’ll split the difference and say 54!!”
“Would you say around 54? But you’re impossible to guess—you look really handsome.”
“..........42.”
OH! MY! GOD!!!!
I’m a Type C, but of course there was no discussion of an allowance or any invitation afterward. To top it all off, he gave me only 3,000 yen for transportation and we went our separate ways!!!!
Of course, I’m the one at fault for saying something rude, but normally you communicate based on the information provided in advance by the staff. What should I report to the club?
I’m planning to tell them:
- The age on the advance profile was different from his actual age.
But as for the fact that:
- He only gave me 3,000 yen for transportation
There’s no standard for transportation money in the first place, so that wouldn’t really be grounds for a complaint, right??
I spent time doing my makeup and traveled two hours each way to the hotel lounge, so I feel like I completely wasted my time and effort!!!!
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If you complain to the staff, they’ll collect the extra ¥2,000 for you.
Really, though, you’re supposed to point out right there that you’re ¥2,000 short.
Men can always lie about their age on their profiles afterward, though. A guy who gives a fake age in the opposite direction is weird. Any man who suggests playing “guess my age” is an unappealing guy who’s never had sex except with an escort.
When I turned over 50, I changed my own age range from “late 40s” to “early 50s.”
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Haha, I guess things like that happen too.（笑）
Still, getting your age wrong on your profile was a bit unfortunate.
I think I’ll let the club know that the man said “...42.”
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Are you saying “I was given ¥3,000 for transportation” as a joke, knowing that there’s no set standard for transportation expenses and it wouldn’t qualify as grounds for a complaint?
Or are you referring to actual transportation costs separate from the allowance? It’s hard to tell.
For dates arranged through Universe Setting, the standard is ¥5,000–¥10,000, so ¥3,000 would violate the club’s rules.
Please consult the club.
However, if you properly received ¥5,000–¥10,000 and were additionally given ¥3,000 specifically for transportation, there are no particular rules regarding that.
That said, if it takes you two hours each way, they’ll probably ask during the interview something like, “Would you like to receive transportation expenses separately as well?”
If your profile states that actual transportation costs should also be covered, you should receive the actual round-trip fare in addition to the ¥5,000–¥10,000.
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I’m really intrigued by a 42-year-old who looks 57.
I mean… you answer your age when someone asks, but it’s not something you turn into a quiz, right? For either men or women. There’s no answer they could give that would make you happy.
Even if they flatter you by guessing younger, you’ll just think, “Well, that was only flattery,” anyway.
Two hours each way… ¥3,000 probably wouldn’t be enough. Kudos to you for making the trip.
I shouldn’t laugh, but I really enjoyed the way you wrote this. You’re very good at putting words together! I’d love to read a column by you.
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Questioner, it’s nice to see that you still seem somewhat positive despite what happened to you.
But what kind of person looks 57 when he’s only 42?
In any case, 3,000 yen violates the club’s rules, so you should report it to the club.
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Was his age different from what I was told?
Could I have mistaken the gentleman?
The transportation allowance was supposed to be ¥5,000–¥10,000. Please tell the staff that his age was different and that the allowance was only ¥3,000.
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It was incredibly entertaining to read.
But honestly, I can only feel sorry for her.
I’m pretty sure ¥3,000 violates the rules.
Still, if she knows she looks older than her age, she really shouldn’t ask, right?
Marika
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