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Feb 28, 2022 19:37
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One of the men I’m seeing also gets dressed right after we’re done, leaves an envelope, and walks out lol
I’m seriously being treated like a public restroom lol
I’m starting to feel like there aren’t any decent, genuinely sincere men out there.
When do you all feel like you’re being treated like a public restroom?
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Maybe the person asking the question has bad luck with men, or perhaps there’s an issue with her own personality.
Or maybe it’s both.
Most people don’t have relationships like that, so I think this situation is pretty unusual.
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I’ve never been treated that way.
I don’t understand what you mean by saying you’re getting divorced because you think of me as a public restroom.
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No way. Not at all. I joined a proper dating club where I’d be treated well precisely because I don’t want that kind of thing. I don’t want to waste my time.
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But if he starts pillow talk or asks you out afterward, you’d probably say, “How annoying. Is he seriously falling for me? What a misunderstanding,” right?
If he’s straightforward and reliably pays his allowance, doesn’t that make him a good papa? Or am I the only one who thinks so, Fuu?
Maybe that’s what the person asking wants, and the papa is simply reading the mood?
Sometimes, when a woman treats it as a transactional relationship, the papa will read the mood and keep it transactional too.
As for Fuu, I can only have a monthly arrangement with someone who respects and appreciates me as a person—and whom I can respect and appreciate in return…
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I don’t think that’s right.
Of course, a man’s character may be part of the reason a woman is treated like a public toilet, but I think the woman’s character may also be an issue.
A woman who always says men treat her disrespectfully is basically introducing herself by saying, “There must be some serious problem with me.”