Straight to the point: Does saying “You’re lovely” actually work?

So far, I’ve made just one offer to a woman who had received a “That’s lovely” reaction. It doesn’t work on every man, but I wouldn’t say it’s completely meaningless either. As for whether it affects the amount of the allowance, that depends on the man. I didn’t change mine in particular.

I’ve actually received some “You seem lovely” messages, and it feels good. Unfortunately, I don’t make an offer to every woman who sends one, but I do make offers to about one in five. There’s no connection between sending “You seem lovely” and the allowance.

For women who have been registered for several months or even a year, it’s definitely effective. The reason is that when considering an offer, men often hesitate because they can’t tell whether a woman is currently active, essentially on hiatus, or simply not very motivated. Also, if you choose based on the date details and hobbies, those preferences help narrow things down in advance, so there’s less chance of a mismatch and everything goes more smoothly. That said, even if you receive a “You seem lovely,” only about one in 40 or 50 men will actually make an offer, so it may not necessarily improve your odds.

This is Oyama from the staff. It seems that quite a few men make offers after receiving a “You’re lovely,” so I do think it can be effective. I also don’t think sending these messages is likely to result in a lower allowance. There are many factors that determine an allowance, including how attractive you appear to men—your looks, charm, and so on—as well as the man’s motivation and financial situation. First, I think it’s best to carefully assess your own strengths, how rare those strengths are from a man’s perspective, your competition—the other women seeing that man—and his budget, then decide how you want to approach the situation. As for sending “You’re lovely” messages, it may be somewhat of a painstaking process, but that’s precisely why they can leave a very different impression on male members. If you take the points above into account and use messages with your “You’re lovely” effectively to approach the right men, I believe you can make your experience even more rewarding! This ended up being a bit long, but thank you for reading!