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Feb 27, 2022 19:08
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my heart still feels empty—nothing fills it.
Before I knew it, I started judging people by their background and education.
Isn’t it incredibly sad when the only compliments you get are that you’re cute or beautiful?
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茉莉花
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Other
If you’re cute and beautiful, wouldn’t papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) go incredibly well with just a little creativity and consideration?
You’re relying way too much on being cute and pretty.
You’re not putting in enough effort.
—Marika
Excuse me, but are you new to papa-katsu?
Still, the same thing applies even outside papa-katsu.
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Other
It would be nice if you showed a side of yourself that’s more than just being cute and pretty. If you feel like you have nothing else to offer, you’ll have to take action and work on that. Good luck.
👨 Male
Universe member
Rather than judging people by their background or education, try looking at what they’re doing now and what they’re trying to accomplish. It may change the way you see people.
If you feel sad that all anyone praises you for is being cute or pretty, try doing something you genuinely want to do. Someone who takes an interest in it might compliment you by saying, “That’s a great project, haha.”
It might be good to take a step outside your current environment and see what happens.
🏅 大阪の昼寝引きこもりトレーダー
スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
It would be great as song lyrics.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
Were you trying to write a poem?
Maybe you don’t know this because you’ve never done papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), but people can compliment you on things besides being cute or pretty.
Personally, I probably compliment someone on being good at oral or on their personality more than I compliment them on being cute or pretty—by more than ten times.
It’s debatable whether this even counts as a question, and the premise of the question also seems mistaken.