I’m the person who asked yesterday about the date where he asked me to make him climax eight times.
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I may have worded it misleadingly, but he didn’t say eight times in three hours. I expressed it that way because, after we entered the hotel, there were three hours remaining.
In reality, I believe he meant it would all be part of one “universe” date.
After four times, I was already completely exhausted. But he told me, “This is only the appetizer, when you compare it to a meal…” I thought, “I can’t handle any more,” so I told him that it was time to leave.
At the time, I wondered whether other women might try a little harder.
As for the allowance… I’m 40, so maybe it couldn’t be helped… *sob*
Also, regarding putting on a condom, he repeatedly told me, “Women don’t really want to wear condoms, you know. They all say they want you to take it off.”
But I kept thinking that I absolutely had to be firm about that, especially as a woman asking this question, so I continued to refuse. Thank you.
Also, in yesterday’s question box, being told, “You did your best,” somehow… really saved me.
It also made me realize, “So it really wasn’t normal after all!”
Thank you so much.
I’m sorry for posting repeatedly since yesterday.
Even on my next date, I want to remember to be grateful and do my best to comfort him within the limited time we have.
Thank you, truly, truly, for always giving me advice.
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Eight times? He sounds like a terrible papa.
Even four times is a lot—you’ve really done your best.
Since there’s also the issue of condoms, if you find another papa, I’d suggest asking him to reduce the number of times. If he won’t listen, it may be best to part ways.
Other women wouldn’t push themselves that hard either.
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People are focusing on the fact that he made her climax eight times, but if you compare eight times with a premature ejaculator to once with a man who takes a long time, wouldn’t dealing with the latter actually be more difficult?
I tend to take a long time myself, so when things are taking a while, I tell her, “It’s perfectly fine— it’s quite common not to climax.”
It sounds like the meeting came with plenty of frustrations, including his demands for sex without protection and issues over the allowance, but hopefully your next encounter will be a better one.
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Weren’t you the one who said you were worried because you had less experience with men than most people your age?
It’s truly just bad luck that you ended up with a man like that at your very first first meeting, but don’t you realize that his demand to have you make him climax eight times was unreasonable to begin with?
What people commonly call “pseudo-romance” may sound like a cheap expression, but dates through a dating club are, after all, just pseudo-romance. You simply endured it by forcing yourself to try your best, didn’t you? That doesn’t really qualify as dating in the first place.
Even if you don’t have much experience with men, you’ve still lived an ordinary life for 40 years. To be honest, I felt irritated reading your thought that maybe you were the one at fault for not being able to meet his demands.
I suppose it was at least good that you were able to say you couldn’t go any further. Still, I wonder—had that man never received any negative feedback before?
I felt uncomfortable seeing people praise you for “doing your best.” Please stand up for yourself a little more.
Marika
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I read your question from yesterday as well.
You’re truly amazing. You’ve really been pushing yourself too hard. It’s wonderful that you’ve been doing your best for the man you’re seeing, but please don’t overdo it.
I’m sure there are even better men out there! Let’s both keep doing our best without putting too much pressure on ourselves.
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Aren’t you pushing yourself too hard and making things difficult for yourself?
You ran into a man who’s a person to avoid. No woman would ask him to take off the condom.
He took advantage of you because you had little experience with papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan)—how infuriating.
Why not leave negative feedback and simply avoid meeting him again? You’re not meeting people for a stressful relationship. There’s no need to put yourself down just because you’re in your 40s.
I’m in my late 40s, and when I don’t like something, I say so clearly.
There really are some wonderful men out there, so please don’t give up and keep looking for a good arrangement.
Please report this person to avoid to the staff via LINE. (*´︶`*)
That will help prevent anyone else from becoming his next victim. Thank you.
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