If I write “no one 55 or older” in my profile, would the papa in his late 50s that I’m currently seeing be hurt if he saw it?
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Men in their late 50s are fine for dinner, but intimacy is difficult. Because of their age, I can’t finish at all, and I feel like crying every time.
Once they’re in their 60s, I find being around them alone makes the food taste bad—I can’t even get it down.
It’s psychological, so it’s not like I can just decide someone is okay because they’re that particular person...
I’m thinking of making 55 and older a no-go from now on. It’s not like these arrangements last anyway.
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I feel like he might interpret it in whatever way suits him:
“I was over 55, but I was okay, so people going forward aren’t allowed. I’m special.”
That could be how he takes it, so it may be fine as is.
And if he asks, I think you can simply say, “You’re fine, [Name].”
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I think men would actually appreciate knowing that in advance.
I’m sure people have mixed feelings about drawing a hard line based solely on age, but there has to be some cutoff somewhere, so I suppose it can’t be helped.
That said, if you put this in your profile, I think you’ll receive fewer offers. As you mentioned, some people may find it off-putting.
If you don’t want to reduce your offers, I’d leave it out of your profile and simply decide during the actual date that you don’t want to pursue things if you think, “This papa is a no-go!” Regardless of his age, you’re under no obligation to move forward. You might even find an ideal supporter who’s over 55.
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I think it’s entirely up to you if you don’t want things to develop into a relationship with men aged 55 or older.
But saying that food tastes bad when you’re dining with someone in his 60s or older feels a bit questionable, to be honest.
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That sounds perfectly fine to me.
Dating isn’t something you should force yourself into.
As for your relationships not lasting, I think you only really come to appreciate the benefits of a dating club once you maintain a relationship over time, so I’d recommend focusing on building something lasting.
People often discuss whether the allowance is high or low, or complain about not receiving offers, on this anonymous Q&A site. But if you have an ongoing arrangement, you don’t need to worry about getting new offers.
Even with a low-paying allowance, staying in a relationship for a year can provide far more support than receiving a large allowance from occasional, one-off pay-per-meeting dates. Once you have a steady arrangement, you’ll also stop worrying about whether new offers are coming in.
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I think it should be fine.
Even if she happens to see your profile, she’ll probably take it positively, thinking, “He’s in his late 50s and still able to date me. Does that mean I’m a special case for him?”
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I think you can’t really know how they’ll feel until the moment comes.
Besides, people probably don’t check the profile of someone they’re seeing unless that person prompts them to, so they may not even notice unless you tell them.
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