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Feb 25, 2022 20:43
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Today I was carrying a huge designer-logo bag worth ¥500,000, wearing a huge designer-logo scarf worth ¥200,000, and a branded hair accessory worth ¥50,000. It was immediately obvious that I was wearing luxury brands.
The guy who approached me even said things like, “You’ve got some nice stuff.” But I feel that seeing a woman with luxury brands would normally make a man think, “She must have money,” or “She probably costs a lot to date.”
For reference, I’m 20 and still young.
In a situation like this, does approaching me mean he wants to become financially dependent on me? I was really puzzled because I thought I’d be the type of woman most men would avoid.
He also seemed young—probably around 23 to 26.
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茉莉花
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I think he probably just wanted to do it once and be done with it.
Marika
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To succeed at picking women up, you probably have to approach 100 women just to get one positive response. It takes someone mentally tough enough to keep approaching people even after being turned down over and over.
You don’t have time to scrutinize every detail, so you approach women one after another based on their face and figure to some extent. Maybe you just happened to be that one person for the questioner.
綾瀬なな
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Could it have been a scout for the sex industry? It would be scary if it was some kind of reverse extortion setup.
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They may have assumed that your papa (a male supporter) bought it for you—the papa from papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan).
If so, they might have thought a younger man would be easy to win over.
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There may be a tendency for women dressed in luxury brands to be easier to win over.
I only heard a scout once say that women with dirty shoes are easier to approach, so it makes me wonder whether there’s some kind of pattern behind it.
I think scouts and pickup artists are looking at the same things.
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I don’t think he’s giving it much thought.
Men probably aren’t as concerned about the price of what a woman is wearing—or how much money other people have—as you might think.