I’m married and usually don’t make offers to married women.

I was drawn to the glamorous aura of a married woman 7–8 years younger than me, so I made her an offer. She’s shown me an overwhelming amount of affection, and now I’m the one feeling confused. After meeting her, she wasn’t as beautiful as I’d expected (though I imagine she was popular when she was younger), and her face naturally shows her age. She does deserve credit for maintaining her figure, though… She’s unhappy with her husband, and while her children are old enough that they no longer need her constant attention and she has more free time, she doesn’t have any money of her own to spend freely. It’s not that I’m unhappy to receive her affection, but is an affair with a married woman really that risky? Most of you answering seem to be single, but how do you feel about being involved with a married woman? You don’t have to give direct advice. I’d appreciate hearing any opinions that might serve as a reference.