There’s a woman I’m close with, and we’ve met many times. She’s an ordinary office worker. She asks ...

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There’s a woman I’m close with, and we’ve met many times. She’s an ordinary office worker. She asks me every time what kind of play or positions I like, but how far can I go with my requests without being rude? To be honest, I’m getting tired of missionary, but I’m hesitant.

茉莉花 · Answer

Meeting repeatedly and sticking to missionary position only is already pretty disrespectful, honestly (lol).

And saying you’re bored with it yourself is even more disrespectful.

Maybe she’s asking because she’s bored too. You should communicate properly and figure it out together. If it were me, sex like yours would be boring, so I wouldn’t see you again.

Since you met through a dating club, what she’s willing to do depends on the individual. But you should at least explore that yourself or talk it over with her. Asking what’s “normal” makes no sense.

Marika

綾瀬なな · Answer

I think it would be best to gradually reveal your preferences to them. If you take it little by little, they’re less likely to be put off.

てつ · Answer

If it were me, I’d be upfront about what I want. Since you’re already tired of the relationship, if you don’t see it progressing any further, you should end things sooner rather than later.

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