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Feb 25, 2022 01:23
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Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I don’t think it’s up to other people to decide whether a relationship is right or wrong. If both parties have agreed to it and are comfortable with it, that should be enough.
So this isn’t really the place to ask. Please find out how the woman involved feels about it.
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お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
It says that the two people should decide for themselves when it comes to a consensual relationship. That’s only natural, since it’s supposed to be up to them.
So there’s no problem if you discuss the terms of the arrangement properly in advance and both agree to them.
However, if you wait until it’s time for her to leave and say, “You were sleeping, so you’re not getting an allowance,” then you’re being dishonest and cowardly.
She presumably stayed overnight believing she would receive an allowance. That’s why.
I don’t believe there are people like that among Universe members, so please don’t lie and claim to be a Universe member.
Only gentlemen are eligible to be Universe members. Someone who acts cowardly or deceives people through a surprise move is not qualified for membership.
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m a member from outside the city too, but since she went all that way and spent three days and two nights with him, I feel he should at least have given her an allowance.
Even if she had been expecting it, I still think he should have had the generosity of spirit—and enough room in his wallet—to give her a little spending money.
Other
Since she’s coming all the way out to a regional area, you’re taking up a considerable amount of her time, including the travel. So I think she should receive an allowance even if there’s no adult relationship (intimate).
Other
Even without an adult relationship (intimacy), he kept you there for a long time, right? Were you able to give her the actual transportation costs plus payment for the overnight stay? Or was it only ¥10,000?
A～Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月１程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
The key point isn’t so much whether it’s right or wrong, but whether the woman consented to it.
If she didn’t, there’s a good chance the relationship will end.
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Age: 50s
👨 Male
Other
Huh?
You didn’t even cover her actual transportation and accommodation costs?
That’s absolutely not okay.
As for the allowance, it’s not really for outsiders to interfere with—as long as both people are happy with it, I suppose that’s all that matters. But was she really okay with that? I honestly have my doubts.
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