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Feb 24, 2022 23:48
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If you say you’re not feeling well, they might assume it’s COVID these days, so maybe it’s better to say you have an upset stomach.
Just be prepared for the possibility that you won’t receive an allowance if you cancel.
A～Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月１程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
That can happen when you meet frequently.
If you’re okay with receiving a lower allowance in that case, you could suggest making today a dinner-only date, for example.
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Age: 50s
👨 Male
Other
“I’m not feeling well, I’m sorry. But I feel better when I eat, so I’d love to have a meal with you.”
“Not feeling well” can include having your period, so depending on how your papa (a male supporter) responds, you can play different cards.
If you want to go on dates with your papa but aren’t up for the hotel, it might be a good idea to have a few hotel-free date options ready:
A play, the gym, a drive, a theme park, an art exhibition, a movie, the beach, the mountains, watching a sports game…
Before he invites you to a hotel, it’s best to suggest places you’d actually be happy to go to.
It gets boring if every date is just about going to a hotel. You’ll get tired of it.
It’s me.
👨 Male
Universe member
“I became a girl…” is probably the best option.
If he comes on strong like, “This is my chance! This is my chance!” like I do, just saying, “Nooo, thanks~” should be fine, haha.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
“I’m not really in the mood for that today, so you don’t need to give me an allowance.”