He probably treats the women under him at work the same way.
He’s probably doing it without realizing it.
If you have the kind of relationship where you can say anything to each other, the best thing—for his sake, too—is to tell him directly.
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To me, all people are equals, regardless of their age, experience, or how much money they have.
It’s strange to look up to someone or look down on them. Sometimes women in papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) treat me disrespectfully, but I don’t get angry and think, “They’re looking down on me. How upsetting.” I just feel a little down.
In a way, I think people who act disrespectfully are easy to deceive.
That papa (a male supporter) is probably easy to deceive too. You can take advantage of people’s worst traits.
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When there’s a 20- or 30-year age gap—or more—most men tend to look down on you a little and treat you like “a much younger girl,” don’t they?
When a papa (a male supporter) takes that too far, gets overly familiar, or lacks tact, it starts to feel like he’s looking down on you.
If it bothers you, you could try telling him over LINE, “I don’t like being treated that way.” But it’s hard to be that assertive unless you’ve gotten pretty close. So try building a relationship with your papa—or at least creating the impression that you’re close—and establish a vibe where you can say anything to each other. Then bring it up.
That worked for me, and now my current papa says things like, “○○ [my name] doesn’t like being looked down on, huh? lol” I always reply, “Exactly. I don’t want men looking down on me!”
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Yes, you do come across as a little too easygoing. If you used your intelligence to communicate things a bit more clearly, the men’s attitudes might change.
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