It seems like many men join with their friends, but from a man’s perspective, have you ever met another guy and thought, “This guy is seriously messed up”?

>It seems like a lot of men join with their friends, but from a man’s perspective, have you ever met another guy and thought, “This guy is seriously messed up”? I haven’t joined with any friends, but I’ve often heard stories from people I’m dating that made me think, “That guy is seriously messed up.” I’ve also seen plenty of questions posted in the Q&A box that made me think, “This person is seriously messed up.” >Do you ever point out things like, “Your allowance is way too low”? I’m not interested in other people’s allowances, so I don’t comment on them. >Do you ever look at a friend’s dating partner and think, “He must be into less conventionally attractive women”? No. I do think people’s tastes can vary a lot, though.

A papa (a male supporter) I know started badmouthing women he’d dated in the past—mentioning which universities they attended and saying things like, “We weren’t physically compatible,” even though no one had asked. I was honestly speechless.... I feel so sorry for one of those women, especially since she still has positive feelings toward him.