I thought, “That’s a violation of basic human decency!” so I wanted to ask.
Has anyone else ever had an experience like this?
A papa I’m seeing went through my phone while I was asleep.
(I normally close all the tabs for apps I’ve opened, but there were signs that my contacts, call history, notes, and LINE had been opened.)
I’ve been seeing this papa for four years.
I thought we’d always gotten along well, but I’m honestly shocked. And it’s creepy.
I currently have five long-term papas, including him, and I tell each of them, “You’re the only one♡” I never give any indication that there’s anyone else.
I’m sure the papas have other girls too, and I feel that deliberately not mentioning it is simply good manners...
I also know that the papa who went through my phone has another girl he’s seeing on the side, even though he tells me I’m the only one. I consider that fair, so I don’t say anything about it.
He was probably disappointed, but there’s no way he can say anything to me, so I plan to keep getting as much out of him as I can until the day he cuts me off.
Still, I’m really pissed off!
That was absolutely the worst. If it were me, I’d confront him directly and ask, “What the hell did you do?” Otherwise, I think it’ll just keep stressing you out.
That said, it shouldn’t have unlocked with Face ID, so maybe it was fingerprint authentication? You should probably strengthen your security from now on.
I also plan to say goodbye to my current papa someday. I mean, unless a man and woman get married, I feel like relationships are basically expected to end anyway… It can’t be helped. Thinking about how it might end sometimes makes me want to cherish the present more, too.
But that papa is seriously unacceptable. He’s honestly so creepy.
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Looking through it without permission isn’t okay.
From now on, it might be a good idea to install apps that can only be opened with fingerprint or facial recognition, or by entering a password.
Fuu is already equipped with a feature that won’t open without a password and takes a photo if the wrong password is entered.
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It’s infuriating when someone looks through your phone without permission.
That said, if you didn’t have a password set and your phone was basically left unprotected, it might be a good idea to set one up from now on.
With fingerprint authentication, it’s pointless if someone unlocks it using your fingerprint while you’re asleep. Face recognition seems to have the same issue, so I think a password is the better option.
There are also apps like these:
“Take a Photo of Whoever Looks at Your Phone Without Permission! Snooping Trap”
An app that automatically takes a photo of anyone who looks through your phone without permission.
“iTrust”
This app lets you create and set up a fake home screen, so you can check which apps someone tried to open while snooping through your phone—almost like looking at their footprints.
“Lock Screen Trapper”
The moment your passcode is entered without permission, it displays a screen that makes it look as though your phone has suddenly broken. Only the person who set it up can restore the screen, so it can serve as evidence when confronting someone about whether they looked at—or tried to look at—your phone.
“Peek Checker 2 - Login Logger”
If someone snoops through your phone without permission, it notifies you by email or through an alert.
“Luxe Guard”
It takes a photo of the person’s face the moment your passcode lock is unlocked, leaving you with evidence.
So installing an app like one of these might be a good idea too.
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Lying to and deceiving each other, then slipping into the comfortable lukewarm bath of convenience that’s been offered and getting cozy together—that’s a kind of idealized vision of papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan).
The moment one of you gets stabbed, you stab right back. Even with that tension in the air, you maintain a perfectly balanced distance. I can see it.
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I wouldn’t want that from a regular boyfriend or even a family member, let alone a male dating partner.
Since it’s a dating club, it’s understood that there are other people involved.
Do your best to get as much out of him as you can, and cut him off before he cuts you off.
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