Tips Feb 24, 2022 18:12

I’d like some advice about a papa.

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I understand that everyone’s appetite is different because of their lifestyles, but before meals he tells me, “I’m not that hungry, so I’m only going to have this.” He really does order only a tiny amount, and he just drinks water. He even assumes things about me, saying, “You’re a light eater, aren’t you?” When we eat at a hotel, we buy food at a convenience store and bring it inside. Even though it’s mealtime, he says, “I’m fine with just snacks.” The meal ends without me being able to have a proper dinner. It’s really uncomfortable and stressful because he seems so determined not to spend any money on me. Is there any way to improve this situation?
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A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
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Perhaps he’s just not very particular about food. If the allowance is satisfactory, I think you should simply keep your expectations low when it comes to having meals with him.
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As Mac pointed out, he may be so conscious of his wife that he can’t eat. My previous papa once told me, “Being with you fills my heart so much that I can’t eat.” Everyone has their own circumstances. But I think what your papa dislikes most is you holding back because you’re younger, so why not be specific and say, “I’m hungry” or “I want to eat this”?
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I think it would be best to say, “Our lifestyles don’t mesh, and I feel uncomfortable, so this relationship has become difficult for me.”
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