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Feb 23, 2022 23:27
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Age: Private
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Universe staff
I overlooked the fact that you’re a woman. I didn’t realize that a female member could throw out her back ＞＜ Sorry.
In that case, I think it would be best to let him know in advance, saying something like, “I’ve thrown out my back.”
The only concern is that he might assume you’re only interested in dinner, but I think it should be fine if you explain that clearly.
I don’t think you need to say that you’re declining the allowance.
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I think you should let him know ahead of time that you’ve thrown your back out.
Rather than saying, “I threw my back out today, so I don’t think I can manage an adult relationship (intimate). I don’t need the allowance,” it may leave a better impression to say, “I’ve thrown my back out, but I’d still like to see you. I’ll do my best,” and let him decide.
I think the best thing is to avoid disappointing a man who’s expecting an adult relationship (intimate) that day.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
Oh, you’re right—it did say “women.” Sorry about that.
It’s up to you whether to decline, be seen as a sincere woman, and hopefully build a connection for the future, or simply focus on receiving the allowance for one meeting.