Is outdoor sex really something that surprisingly few people have experienced? When I was in high school, I had no money and nowhere to go, so I mostly had sex outdoors—station restrooms, parks, even cemeteries. Once, we did it in the family Buddhist altar room, with our ancestors watching over us.

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Since that was the ultimate form of having no money, now that I’m an adult, outdoor sex and public play are honestly so damn boring to me. It feels too miserable—I don’t even want to do it. Going for a walk with a vibrator inside or wearing nothing but a trench coat feels completely ordinary, too. But today, my papa (a male supporter) was talking about outdoor sex as though it were something really out of the ordinary, which made me wonder: Is it really that rare…!? Don’t most people experience outdoor sex at least once when they’re around high-school age?

Answer 1

About 25 years ago, my ex-wife and I used to have sex outdoors all the time. We even started once while we were climbing a mountain, haha. I liked seeing her reactions when I touched her outside… Of course, I don’t do that anymore. But vibrating eggs were expensive back then, so I still kind of want to put one on a woman and control it remotely while taking a walk.

Answer 2

Does having sex in a station restroom count as public sex? I always thought it didn’t.

Answer 3

When I was in high school, I was a total virgin—I’d never even kissed anyone or held hands. I don’t even remember talking to any girls. I’m so jealous. *Sobbing*

Answer 4

The person asking the question wrote: “To be honest, now that I’m an adult, outdoor sex and public play are seriously fucking boring. It feels so humiliating that I don’t even want to do it.” In other words, they don’t want to do it now. And if they don’t want to, then many other people probably don’t want to either, even if their reasons are different. I think activities that people normally wouldn’t do are what you’d call abnormal play, and they’re quite uncommon. If the questioner still does it regularly, then I can see why you’d think, “What’s so unusual about that?”

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