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Feb 23, 2022 11:11
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Age: Private
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A restaurant with a nice atmosphere is more important than staying within a strict budget.
In my experience, places with a good atmosphere usually cost around ¥10,000–¥20,000 for two people.
If you go below that price range, the invitation afterward may not go well, or the relationship going forward may not develop smoothly. So I think around ¥10,000–¥20,000 is about right.
However, if you don’t know any nice restaurants like that, choosing a slightly more expensive one can make them feel like, “They took me somewhere really nice.” So if you’re not sure, that can be a good option. In that case, I’d suggest a budget of around ¥50,000.
If you want to take them somewhere even more expensive, I think it’s better to wait until you’ve gotten to know each other better.
A～Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月１程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
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It’s probably best to avoid chain restaurants.
Personally, I also avoid places where the cost of the venue seems to be added on top.
I choose restaurants based on the quality of the food rather than the price, and usually end up booking places that cost around ¥5,000–¥10,000 per person for dinner.
Age: Private
👨 Male
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Excluding alcohol, I choose private-room restaurants with a budget of at least ¥5,000 per person.
I base the type of cuisine on the woman’s favorite foods and any ingredients she dislikes listed in her profile.
After making the reservation, I ask the staff to let her know that we should meet at the restaurant, and I confirm whether she’s comfortable with that choice.
Some women prefer times outside normal mealtimes, such as 3 p.m. In those cases, I choose a hotel lounge or Starbucks instead. I handle these the same way by arranging to meet at the venue and confirming her preference.
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Even though you made the offer, you don’t know what kind of woman will show up, so a nice dinner at an upscale hotel for around ¥5,000–¥10,000 is your safest bet.
Family restaurants like Saizeriya are a no-go. Starbucks is out too, of course.
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Since this is someone you’re hoping to continue seeing, I think the best choice is a place where you feel, “This is the most suitable setting for both of us, and the best hospitality I can offer.”
Why ask other people about the location or budget? You’re not a child, so think it through and plan it yourself.
Good luck!