To the old guy who asked the question below

If you want to enjoy the relationship, it’s best to be with someone you genuinely have fun spending time with. And if you can be intimate when you want to, and the chemistry is good, neither men nor women will feel as much need to place emphasis on an allowance for an adult relationship. That’s why an allowance for intimacy doesn’t really matter. If the chemistry is good and they’re not just after your body…

Speaking as a male respondent who’s reasonably well-off, I’m not trying to play games or manipulate things so I don’t have to give an allowance. If anything, it’s women doing papa-katsu like the questioner who try to get their papa to pay more and scheme in various ways. The man gives an allowance within an amount he can comfortably afford while maintaining the relationship. The woman says goodbye if she feels the allowance isn’t enough for the relationship to develop further. I think that’s really all there is to it. Of the more than 40 women I’ve offered arrangements to, only about 10% have asked for a pay-per-meeting allowance of 60,000 yen or more. My impression is that most women who can’t pursue a relationship with a man for 50,000 yen wouldn’t pursue one even if he offered 100,000 yen.

Unfortunately, there are Carlos-types among both Black members and The Salon members... I once heard directly from one of my monthly arrangement partners about a The Salon member who offered a pay-per-meeting allowance of 50,000 yen to a female Gold member of Universe, saying, “Do I still have a chance?” Then, a few days later, he messaged her on LINE to ask if he was still in the running. Update: Compared with the defamatory ○ccusations claiming that “he actually didn’t give the ○○ allowance,” I think “Carlos” is a lo～t softer. But maybe people react to “Carlos” because they understand the pro-wrestling bit? ♡ Anyway, let’s go with Hiromi GO from next time♪ Update 2: Incidentally, once it reaches a pay-per-meeting allowance of 60,000 yen, I was thinking of calling him Roberto Carlos. Any soccer fan knows that legendary player. Carlos Toshiki... Hmm, Hiromi GO after all. Gorilla Man might work too. But PJ probably doesn’t know Gorilla Man, given their generation.

I’m Taro, a male member. Since you said, “This question might get deleted,” I assume it is technically a question. I guess you mean the parts with the “?” marks? Q: How many male members do you think genuinely take the allowance talk at face value? A: At the very least, the person asking clearly believes there are a lot of men like that. That’s why you couldn’t sit still and had to post this question, right? lol Q: It might work with a girl in Gold who gets an average or low number of offers, but wouldn’t it be difficult otherwise? A: First of all, I don’t think the class matters much—at least based on my experience. Girls who get a lot of offers probably do end up with higher allowance expectations. I’ve had cases where I made an offer soon after a girl registered and agreed on a low amount, only for her expectations to rise after receiving tons of offers and meeting lots of men. After two or three months, she might start saying things like, “Could you raise it a little?” But that doesn’t necessarily mean she’ll cut you off completely if you refuse. If you want to get in early and maintain the advantage, I think it’s essential to meet her repeatedly at the beginning and build a relationship. Something like that, I guess. This ended up being more of an addendum to the question from the guy below than an answer to the person who asked, though. lol