No matter how hard I try to become more beautiful, I can’t feel satisfied with myself, and it’s painful—I end up becoming negative.
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“I see people around me who are heavier than I am and care less about their appearance seeming so much happier than I am, and all my hard work starts to feel pointless.”
That’s how I feel.
Is the problem that I’m poor on the inside? Am I putting my efforts into the wrong things?
Sometimes I even find myself wishing for a papa (a male supporter) who would be genuinely father-like (lol)—someone who would value my potential and help me grow.
Even when I do everything I can, if I don’t have the money to begin with, I can’t spend much on beauty.
Do papas really prefer someone who is already a finished product, like the embodiment of beauty?
I know I’m being naive.
Please give me your harsh, honest opinions! I need some tough love and encouragement!
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Could it be that you weren’t really interested in beauty and skincare to begin with? Forcing yourself to work at something you don’t enjoy will only wear you out, so I think you should focus on what you genuinely like.
Also, I’m not particularly into muscular men. The papa (male supporter) I like doesn’t work out, but he was an athlete in school and is still muscular. Another papa (male supporter) doesn’t go to the gym either, but he has a great physique from playing tennis as a hobby.
I’m not sure where people got the idea that I’m into muscular men. I don’t want my papas (male supporters) to be out of shape, but an ordinary build is perfectly fine.
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I think you’re putting your effort in the wrong direction.
Basically, it’s best to think of beauty and self-care as something you do for your own satisfaction.
Being beautiful may have its advantages, but what people find beautiful varies from person to person. No matter how much effort you put into your appearance, I don’t think that alone can make you happy.
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If you feel that you’re really doing your best, then I think you should have a little more confidence in yourself.
If you feel your efforts aren’t enough, then just keep working at it. I believe you can become more attractive even without much money. Cosmetic surgery does require money, of course, but I think there’s still a lot you can do without spending much.
I can’t really say for sure since I don’t know what kind of efforts you’re making. But maybe relying on the idea that your papa will somehow take care of everything is keeping you from giving it your all?
I’m not sure what you mean by a “perfect embodiment of beauty,” but I don’t think an obviously heavily altered face is necessarily what people prefer.
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This is a difficult one to answer. I sincerely apologize for hurting you. I’m truly sorry.
In addition to their allowance, I often give them extra money for beauty expenses. I know how incredibly expensive beauty care can be. Even as an older guy, I spend a ridiculous amount on it myself.
I’m interested in every aspect of it. I’m just as deep into the beauty rabbit hole as any woman, so I understand how women feel. Because I get it, I make sure to tell them they’re cute. I pay close attention and shower them with compliments—from the slightest change in hairstyle or a diet to their clothes.
To all the papas out there:
If you have enough money to buy a luxury car, use it to help pay for a girl’s beauty expenses instead. Please make the allowance at least 60,000 yen. (_ _)
> Men are just wallets, after all.
Exactly. In that case, please make it 60,000 yen per meeting. m(__)m
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I think the best place to start is by finding someone who likes you as you are right now. Some people will also value your potential to grow.
That said, it’s not easy to find someone like that, so you’ll probably have to compromise to some extent when choosing who to date.
Even so, if you continue seeing each other, I think you can gradually change and grow.
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