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I’ve read through quite a few posts here. Thank you all in advance for your help m(_ _)m I’m a married woman in my 30s who has spent 12 years navigating the adult entertainment and dating-site scenes. I’m on the curvier side and take good care of my appearance. I treasure my long black hair, big eyes, and shapely hips♪ I currently have 42 regular partners from dating sites. (Although the allowance there is only 15,000–20,000 yen…) Question 1 My husband and I get along well, but we have no intimacy, so I’m looking for some warmth and affection. That’s why I’ve become interested in moving from dating sites to Universe for papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan). I feel there’s a big difference between dating sites and papa-katsu. Is it really possible to ask for an allowance of 30,000 yen or more? I’m very anxious, wondering whether someone like me could actually get that much. However, I’m worried that asking for only 15,000 yen at Universe might make me seem like a person to avoid, so I’m not sure how to approach this m(*_ _)m Question 2 I’d like to work in Kyoto, but I’m originally from outside the region, so I don’t speak with a Kansai accent… Are men mainly looking for Kyoto beauties? Question 3 Do most of you work from the evening into the night? Daytime works better for me, but would that fit papa (male supporters)’ schedules? Question 4 Are there really only a few papas who are okay with someone curvy? (I’m working hard on dieting!!) I’m very sorry for asking so many questions and writing such a long post. I’m hoping to approach this sincerely and do my best, so I’d really appreciate it if someone could give me some advice m(_ _)m Thank you very much m(_ _)m

Answer 1

I’m not sure how curvy you are, but even though it’s a dating site, having 42 men in monthly arrangements suggests you must be reasonably attractive. You’d probably be considered standard-tier, and if you receive an offer, men will likely have an allowance of around ¥30,000 in mind as the minimum. Being a Kyoto beauty isn’t relevant. When you say weekday afternoons, some men will be wary and assume you’re married. For now, try going to an interview.

Answer 2

Question 1 Please stop lowering the quality of Universe all by yourself with a 1.5. Question 2 Kyoto has nothing to do with this. Question 3 Does everyone mainly work from the evening into the night? Since the men are high quality, many of us can meet during the day. I also go on dates during the day. Question 4 Are there really not many papas who are okay with someone being chubby? Yes, there aren’t many. At Universe, women who don’t meet the standards don’t receive offers, so lose weight into the 40-kilogram range. I honestly don’t understand why having a big butt is something to be proud of. Even if you want to join, you’ll be rejected at the interview. Don’t just say you’ll work on dieting—not starting tomorrow, but take action right now. And please stop having unprotected sex and spreading STIs. Everyone ends up getting infected.

Answer 3

Why not go to the interview once and then decide?

Answer 4

① First, get accepted by Universal Studios. ② Then, wait for offers to come in. You can start worrying about it after that, can’t you?

Answer 5

I can’t say for sure since I haven’t seen you in person, but I’ll answer on the assumption that you’ve received an offer. Question 1 I might get criticized by “Makeotoko-san” for saying this, but if the allowance is 30,000 yen or more, I think that’s a safe expectation. Question 2 I don’t think people specifically demand a “Kyoto beauty.” Rather than focusing on whether someone is a Kyoto beauty, I think many people care more about whether the woman in front of them is a good match for them. Question 3 I’m not a typical office worker, so my schedule is flexible and daytime meetings aren’t a problem. I think there are quite a few people like me who have flexible schedules, so daytime papa-katsu should be possible. Question 4 There are probably fewer people who meet those appearance requirements, since looks vary greatly from person to person, but I don’t think they’re nonexistent.

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