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Feb 21, 2022 13:18
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We decided on the date for our next meeting over LINE, and he replied, “I can’t wait to see you!” So I messaged back, “I’m looking forward to it too!” But he hasn’t even read it after a full day.
He usually replies the same day, so I’m worried that something may have happened. Since a day had passed, I messaged him, “Where shall we meet on [date]?” but even after two hours, he still hasn’t read it.
I can still send stamps, so I haven’t been blocked. We’re supposed to meet in two weeks. Do you think he’s going to fade out without saying anything?
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🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
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You never know what might happen.
It could be a traffic accident,
or he might suddenly fall ill.
His wife may have found out, leaving him in a difficult situation.
Something serious could also have happened at work.
Even if someone can manage all sorts of things when life is peaceful, when they’re busy, they may not be able to focus on anything else.
There are all kinds of possibilities, so I think it’s best to always keep a “que sera, sera” attitude.
🏅 パパ活歴8年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
There are still two weeks to go, so don’t bombard him with messages—just try to stay calm.
If he doesn’t reply, check in again three days before the date. If there’s still no response, it’s best to give up.
Your papa (a male supporter) may have various circumstances, such as losing his phone or having his wife see the messages and take his phone away.
Hopefully he’ll get back to you, but if he ghosts you, these things happen. Just move on to your next papa.
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🏅 40歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現AI界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
You never know when you’re going to die, after all. I might be dead an hour from now, so I reply to any messages I can and finish as much work as possible. I’ll post whatever answers I can.
Let’s put our hands together in gratitude. Gassho.
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private
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I initially thought Ace had posted this, but it’s LINE, isn’t it?
It’s totally normal for Ace to go silent for about two weeks, so I don’t really worry about it. But if Ace happens to email me and I don’t reply for half a day, I get hit with a barrage of messages like, “Is something wrong?” “I’m worried…” and “Don’t disappear on me, Mr. Loser 😭” It’s honestly hilarious lol.
That said, most of the time it’s just a hassle, so you’ll have to be patient.
I think the papa (a male supporter) of the person asking is just being deliberately mean. I tease Ace sometimes too lol.
Age: Private
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If he has a spouse, she may have found out, or he could have been hospitalized unexpectedly, hit by a car, or any number of other things.