I’m the one who asked this question.
Thank you all for your answers.
I’d like to ask for some related advice as well.
This woman is truly wonderful and exactly my type, but I’ve decided to keep looking for other women so I don’t become too attached, while also preparing myself for the possibility that she may cut things off with me.
However, I can’t shake the feeling that she doesn’t really like me, so I’m thinking of taking the plunge and asking her over LINE whether meeting me feels like a hassle. Would that be a bad idea?
I can vaguely imagine that asking might bring the relationship to an end or make things worse, though…
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Why LINE?
You want things to continue, yet you can’t even see her expression. Are you really just telling her what you want unilaterally?
That self-centered, oblivious attitude might be bringing down her enthusiasm.
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I’m gradually starting to wonder whether this question is even genuine.
The reason is that, although it’s presented as a consultation, things like:
“Should I cut ties with her?”
and
“I can pretty much imagine that asking her will bring the relationship to an end or make things worse, though…”
make it seem as if they’re just using the guise of asking for advice to enjoy the back-and-forth of the questions and answers. I don’t sense any real intention to continue pursuing a relationship with the woman.
If he’s already decided to look for someone else anyway, it seems like there’s no need to ask the question in the first place.
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You won’t get their true feelings through LINE.
That’s because LINE works well as a chat tool for people who already have a deep relationship—it can help bring them even closer. But the opposite is true as well: it’s almost useless for deepening a relationship between people who are still only loosely connected.
When the relationship is still shallow, you have to develop it face-to-face. With text exchanges, the communication just skims along the surface. Haven’t you ever had that feeling?
So, unfortunately, the answer to your question is that there’s no real point in asking.
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You’re just going to give up that easily on a woman you like!?
Honestly, that’s what scares me more.
You’re only trying to escape because the uncertainty is getting to you, right?
I’ll be blunt: relationships are supposed to leave you feeling uncertain!!
You’ve got to become mature enough to savor it, thinking, “Wow, that’s some rich, complex flavor,” or you’ll never become a truly seasoned adult.
Have you tried everything? Are you actually making an effort? Women’s emotions can fluctuate, so if you keep the relationship going, opportunities may occasionally come your way. But if you don’t reach out and seize them, you won’t get them in the first place.
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