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Feb 19, 2022 20:36
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He said he felt bad making me spend as much as four hours with him when we became intimate on the first day, but then he asked me to stay over the second time we met. He’s a pretty confusing papa (a male supporter).
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If you haven’t been seeing anyone else, then the male supporter must have passed it to you, so you need to tell him. Have you told him that he infected you?
If he reads your LINE messages but doesn’t respond, maybe he’s waiting until he has a good reply.
When you say herpes, do you mean oral herpes, like a cold sore, or the sexually transmitted kind?
🏅 大阪の昼寝引きこもりトレーダー
スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
Once you’re infected with herpes, it never fully goes away. You shouldn’t have close contact with anyone during an outbreak.
🏅 パパ活歴8年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I think it was good that you told him.
But if your papa (a male supporter) doesn’t have herpes, he’ll realize that you caught it from someone else, so whether he’ll continue seeing you is uncertain.
If he hasn’t blocked you, you could try contacting him once your symptoms have cleared up.
Maybe the four-hour option was just lip service. If you’re okay with staying overnight, your chances of seeing him again might go up.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
There have been cases where someone was charged with assault for knowingly hiding an illness and transmitting it, despite being aware of the risk of infection.
I think it would have been better to be honest about it.
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
I’m not entirely sure, but if you caught it from your papa, you should obviously tell him.
If you caught it from someone else, I think it would be better to come up with a reasonable excuse for not being able to meet while you’re receiving treatment, and only see him again once you’ve fully recovered.