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What kind of girl do you think wouldn’t continue unless she received a high allowance?

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I’m also usually offered a relatively high allowance. Several men have offered me 50,000 yen, but I didn’t feel there was any benefit to meeting them for that amount, so I declined while giving only other reasons. Of course, I don’t think they imagined that the allowance was one of my reasons as well. Most men offer me a generous allowance without me even asking. Why do you think that is? I’m not particularly beautiful or anything. Do I come across as an expensive woman, or have I simply been lucky? Sorry for asking such a silly question.
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Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
I generally avoid getting involved from the outset with women I feel would only continue seeing me if the allowance were high. That said, some women seem to dislike anything but upscale hotels and restaurants. When a woman cares about status, I try to keep those expectations in mind. On the other hand, some women are perfectly happy with McDonald’s or Saizeriya, but they tend to be younger, such as college students.
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When you ask the staff how many offers she has, and they say she gets a lot, I think some men decide to offer a higher allowance. If she turns him down, that’s the end of it. But if he offers more, he can at least get her to go to a hotel once, and then he can decide whether he wants to continue seeing her. Alternatively, the man may be experienced enough to know at a glance that she’ll go elsewhere unless he offers around that amount. Since you’re turning down men who offer 5, experienced men probably have a good sense for these things. The men who offer 5 are probably either experienced men who don’t mind if nothing comes of it, or men who simply don’t understand the situation—eternal beginners who don’t understand women. The most troublesome are the men who say, “I don’t understand why she turned me down.” Even when you tell them it was because of the allowance, they insist that couldn’t possibly be the reason... >< > Why do men offer me a high allowance without even saying anything first? I think you’re probably exactly their type. You must give off a pleasant vibe.
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Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
If it’s generous, consider yourself lucky. Is there really any need to ask about it here?
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Age: 40s 👨 Male Universe member
Intimidating presence
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Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
I’ve never thought, “I won’t be able to keep seeing her unless I offer a high allowance,” so I’m not sure. In my experience, even women who aren’t particularly beautiful may ask for 10, so I don’t think appearance has much to do with it. With women in their 30s, I do assume they probably have a decent income from their jobs.
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