When men say, “I want to do papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) too” or “I’m jealous that you get to eat delicious food and even receive an allowance,” do they really mean it?
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Isn’t it strange to be jealous that women around 20 are eating with and having sex with men who aren’t even handsome and could easily be their fathers or grandfathers?
They can only say things like that because they think they could still be romantic prospects for women 30, 40, or even 50 years younger than them, right?
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Aren’t you just envious that someone can make money with nothing but their youth and looks? If you were a man, being young and energetic wouldn’t get you much money unless you became a popular host.
When you think about it normally, it’s pretty amazing that simply being young and female is enough for people to recognize your value—and for you to receive more money than you could earn from an ordinary job.
Whether you’re romantically interested in them or not is probably beside the point.
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I don’t want to do papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan)—I’m a man, after all.
But I truly think women who have aged gracefully are incredibly attractive. I imagine going on dates with a woman twenty or thirty years older than me would be enjoyable, and I could even see her as a romantic prospect. Is that really so wrong?
This is a bit off-topic, but at one point in my life, I regularly met with a woman in her eighties. It was for work, so she wasn’t a romantic prospect, but the valuable stories and insights I gained from her—things only she could share—are still precious to me.
Through that experience, I learned that stylish, intelligent, charming people don’t change even as they grow older.
So I don’t think there’s anything strange about “a young woman having dinner with a man the same age as her father or grandfather.” People can tell me my way of thinking is odd, but that’s honestly how I feel ♪( ´▽｀)
Huh? I feel like I kind of twisted the question to suit my own answer. Sorry m(_ _)m
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Haven’t you already arrived at your own answer?
I don’t think the gentleman sees himself as unattractive or smelly.
If you asked him whether he could be with a 90-year-old grandmother, I doubt he could.
Everyone seems to think their own looks and scent are perfectly fine.
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I’ve never met a papa (a male supporter) who would say something like that. That’s an incredibly tactless thing to say. It may be what he really thinks, but I’d just ignore him completely.
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