The papa I see a few times a month loves his wife, but their relationship is sexless and he wanted someone on the side. I also wanted someone for stress relief, so we hit it off.
However, my papa messages me every day and wants to talk about everyday things. When I’m not feeling well, he gets really worried, and he checks my Instagram constantly.
But when I ask if he likes me, he says, “I love my wife, so I can’t say something like that.” It makes absolutely no sense to me.
If he loves his wife and only wants a friend with benefits, honestly, I wish he’d keep a little more distance. We’re sexually compatible, but how can we continue this while keeping a healthy distance?
> My papa messages me on LINE every day and wants to chat about our everyday lives.
Why not talk to him about it when you meet? If he loves his wife and is only looking for a casual sex partner, you could tactfully explain that you’d prefer to keep a little more distance.
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Do you want to ask, “Do you like me?” and hear him say, “I like you so much”? Are you hoping he’ll genuinely fall for you?
If not, why not just leave him alone for a while? If you play it off smoothly, you might be able to maintain a comfortable distance.
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I get the feeling he wants to be in a romantic relationship with a friend-with-benefits. Maybe he can’t get it up unless there are romantic feelings involved?
If it’s too much trouble, I think you can just leave him alone, but it would be good if you could keep things under control to some extent.
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Even lowlifes should have some manners.
If she asks, “Do you like me?” then a lowlife’s answer should be, “Of course I do.” Come on, lie that much at least.
So in this case, as lowlife as I am, I have to say he’s still a lowlife. To use a wrestling analogy, he’s a babyface the audience genuinely hates.
There are levels to being a lowlife.
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