Tips Feb 15, 2022 19:15

I’ve only ever been with men I met online or here who were looking for papa-katsu. I lost my virginity to the lowest of the low among papa-katsu men. I don’t know what sex with genuine love feels like. No one I’ve been with has put on a condom from the start. Does wearing a condom mean that someone loves you? I want to know what love feels like, so please tell me.

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There’s no decent man who tries to go without a condom from the start. Whether he’s young or an older guy, there’s a 99% chance he’s an overconfident asshole. That said, using a condom doesn’t necessarily mean he’s full of love. I just feel that someone who agrees to use one tends to be more considerate and thoughtful toward their partner. As for what it feels like when there’s love involved, I don’t think you can really understand it just by hearing about it here—you have to experience it for yourself. Afterward, you both feel fulfilled and warm inside, or at least that’s how I see it. It feels like your sense of togetherness has grown stronger.
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Wearing a condom doesn’t necessarily mean there’s love involved. At the very least, though, someone who cares about the woman’s well-being will use one—that’s all I mean. I’m sure there are people who have sex without a condom and still have genuine feelings, and the same goes for people you meet online or through an escort dating club. It’s also possible that you’re the one rejecting them before things can develop. I’m not really sure what’s going on, but… I believe you’ll meet someone who truly cares about you someday. I hope you find a good person.
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Were you told by someone to go to a dating club and give your virginity to someone? When you say you don’t know what it’s like to have sex with love, you’re saying you don’t have a boyfriend, right? You never met anyone who would use a condom from the start? You must have kept ending up with nothing but stupid men. Did you just leave it up to them and say nothing about putting on a condom yourself? If you keep leaving your entire life in other people’s hands and blaming them, how are you planning to live from here on out? If you don’t like something, you have to say so.
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Using protection isn’t proof that you’re loved. I see it as basic etiquette when engaging in an adult relationship (intimate) through a dating club. Love means that the other person genuinely takes your well-being into consideration.
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