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Feb 15, 2022 14:56
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No matter what you do, she shows no reaction whatsoever.
Aren’t you choosing her based solely on her looks?
If you feel like you’re doing her a favor by making an offer out of pity because you don’t think you’ll get any offers, you should just quit papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan).
It’s really unfortunate for a woman to find out later that she was chosen for such a ridiculous reason.
There’s no point in wasting your time placing an order, so you should make an offer to someone who seems more responsive.
🏅 パパ活歴8年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
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With Fuu, unless you have some truly exceptional qualities, someone who’s “passive” will probably choose to end things.
If you’re prepared for the possibility of breaking things off, you could try telling her what you want, but there’s a good chance she’ll dislike it and won’t change.
If she’s passive with other women too, the problem may be on your side as well—perhaps the allowance is too low, or you’re making the intimacy all about yourself.
Which is it? You’ll find out by seeing how things go with other women.
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
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I think someone who just lies there unresponsive will be the same no matter what you ask her to do.
But she doesn’t know how other women are, so she probably thinks that’s normal.
If you like her for other reasons, I’d suggest accepting that intimacy is just how she is, paying her the usual allowance, and enjoying the conversation.
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スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
If someone is completely passive, telling them probably won’t change much, so it’s better to see someone else.
I think it’s a talent.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを！
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中！
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです！
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
You really have no choice but to improve your skills, right?
But even if you transformed yourself (or had someone transform you), meeting over and over might still be a hassle.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
You’re a man, right?
I’d say anyone who doesn’t even select their gender or age is a classic passive “tuna” too.
I’ve never met a woman who just lay there passively, but if the date is boring, I won’t see her a second time.