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Feb 14, 2022 19:24
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I have a favorite hotel, so our dates always end up taking place in the city where it’s located.
I do change up the restaurants we go to.
Would my partner get bored if we always met in the same city and stayed at the same hotel?
7 answers
Other
I get bored easily, so I move around, staying at different hotels in different neighborhoods.
Your own style is perfectly fine, but changing things up once in a while can be stimulating and help keep you feeling young.
Other
It seems each papa (male supporter) has his favorite hotel, so most of them stick to the same one. But I enjoy each place in its own way, so I don’t really mind (lol).
I’ve gotten used to going there and can estimate the timing now, so it’s convenient being able to tell them roughly what time I’ll arrive after work.
Marika
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
With one long-term woman, I always go to the same hotel.
It’s more comfortable that way… I’ve built up quite a few points, too.
But with other women, I go to different hotels.
It just depends on my mood at the time.
Other
Opinions will probably vary. Some people get bored going to the same places, while others feel more comfortable with familiar places. I can understand both perspectives, and I don’t think either is necessarily better. It would be great if you and the person you’re seeing felt the same way, but if they have the exact opposite view, you may find yourself wondering whether to go along with them.
Other
There are a few places, and we rotate between them.
If it bothers you, why not ask her, “Would you like to go somewhere different sometime?”
For her, how easy the hotel is to get to from home—and whether she likes the hotel—also plays a role, so going to the same place every time doesn’t necessarily mean she dislikes it.
Other
Don’t you get bored meeting two or three times a week?
I’d get bored, since I’d also want to play golf, go for drives, and do things besides going to hotels. You’re only looking for an adult relationship (intimate), aren’t you?
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
It’s usually the same, but every now and then the conversation turns to going to a love hotel or doing it outdoors.
I’d get bored if we always stayed in the same neighborhood and went to the same hotel, and I worry I’d come across as boring, so I try to switch things up occasionally.