Will my experience working in nightlife be included in my profile?

It depends on whether you only occasionally work in nightlife or whether it’s your actual profession. If it’s your profession, it may be listed on your profile using different wording—something men will still understand. If you have a daytime job and only work in nightlife occasionally, the staff may mention it in your profile, but usually they keep it as internal information and tell men only if they ask. Men who inquire are generally people who don’t want to meet women working in nightlife. So if you lie about it, you’d have to make sure he never finds out, or I think he’ll end things as soon as he does. If you’re honest from the beginning, you simply won’t meet men who have a problem with it, so you probably won’t have to worry about things ending later because of your nightlife work.

It depends on the staff member, but it’s actually uncommon for them to mention prior experience in your profile. That said, if you ask by phone or email, they can tell you whether you fall into categories men tend to avoid, such as experience in the sex industry, nightlife work, or dating apps. If it turns out to be a mismatch, it just wastes both people’s time, so it would be helpful if you were honest about it upfront.