Tips Feb 11, 2022 19:49

Can I apply for another interview even if I didn’t pass the first one?

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Also, about how many male members in their 30s are there? I’d prefer to date someone close to my age if possible. Thank you in advance.
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Age: 40s 👨 Male Universe member
Yes, I’m in my 30s.
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Maybe you were rejected before because you said something like, “It’s tough unless she’s in her 30s or younger~.” Marika
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There are probably very few men in their 30s. Before going to another interview, I think you should first figure out why you were rejected. Sorry to be blunt, but if you’re very overweight or extremely thin, you could work on getting to a more average build. It might also help to reconsider your attitude. Were you able to call and ask why you were rejected? If you can find that out, this could be your chance to change.
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Age: Private 👨 Male Universe staff
If you reapply too soon after failing the interview, they may reject your application before you even get another interview. Do you have any idea why you failed last time? For example, with Relationship Type A, you generally won’t be accepted unless you’re exceptionally attractive. Even if you choose Type B or C, if they feel you don’t seem interested in an adult relationship (intimate), they may judge you by the same standards as Type A. In that case, you still won’t be accepted unless you’re very attractive—and if they think you’re someone who might lie, you could be rejected regardless of your looks. It’s also possible they felt your expectations of men were too demanding. I think you should first consider what caused you to fail last time, work on that, and then reapply. If you were rejected because you said you would only accept men in their 30s, it may be better to let go of that age preference. If you insist on it, you’ll need to have something exceptional enough to be accepted despite being that selective.
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I can’t say what will happen, but if you know why you weren’t selected, I think it would be best to work on improving that area. In your 20s, it may be fairly uncommon to receive an offer from a man in his 30s through a dating club. Of course, there are exceptions, and everyone has different preferences, but I think many men register because they want to date younger women. The reason is that if they wanted to meet someone close to their own age, they could do so without going through a dating club.
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Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
If you were rejected at the interview once, I think you should focus first on getting accepted. Also, if you want to date younger men, a dating club probably isn’t the right place for you.
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Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
If your weight, appearance, or views have clearly changed since before, they may be willing to interview you again. Apparently, men in their 30s make up 14% of the male membership: https://universe-club.jp/men/male-data/ If you’re too idealistic or have too many demands, the club will probably want to avoid trouble and complaints, so I think you’ll be rejected at the interview again.
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